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8 Quick Ways to Relax Before a Big Date

Posted on February 11th, 2010 in General by hdn-dating-information-free-online-dating-guide

8 Quick Ways to Relax Before a Big Date

So you haven’t been out on a date in awhile and you’re nervous that you’ll do or say the wrong thing. Or perhaps your last date was such a disaster that it should have had a rating 5 on the weather channel. Getting nervous before a date is understandable. Will they be attracted to you? Are you both on the same wavelength? Will you be able to control your mouth from saying something your brain knows is stupid?

Mistakes usually occur when stress levels are high. And lets face it dating is a stressful endeavour. The best thing you can do before a date is…relax…I know that is easier said than done but here are 8 easy ways to chillout before your dates arrives so that you actually have a good time on your date without any jittery mis-steps.

1. Meditate or if that sounds too mystical just close your eyes and focus on your breathing, feel it as it goes in and feel it go out. Can you feel it flow through your nostrils into your lungs? Does your stomach expand too? If it does then you know your breathing deeply and you’ll get the most benefit from the activity. See if you can focus on the pause between breaths and that between an inhale and an exhale. Do it for 5 minutes or do it for 20 – the length is not as important as your focus during this time.

2. Sing. Really loudly. Obviously this isn’t going to work in an office but it’s great in the car, especially at night if you’re worried about other people looking at you oddly.

3. Stretch. Try standing with your feet hip width apart and then take a deep breath, rise up onto your toes and reach up to the ceiling with your fingertips. Hold for as long as you can. And then slowly release your breath, your arms and finally put your heels back on the ground.

4. Go for a walk even if it’s just around the office or your living room. Or you could walk to the mailbox or do 6 starjumps or put on some dancing music. Anything to get your body moving and those endorphins flowing.

5. Give yourself a quick massage – your feet or hands are good places to start for a quick treat. Keep some hand cream or body lotion at your desk or in your bedside table and you’ll always be ready to treat yourself. And take your time – afterall YOU know the bits you like.

6. Connect with your inner child – Do a handstand or a cartwheel – this isn’t going to work indoors but if you’re wearing trousers there’s no reason why you can’t do it in the park on your way to meet your date. And while you’re there have a go on the slide too (not a good option if you’re wearing white and its probably a good idea to make sure the ramp is clean before you slide).

7. Go somewhere private and be as unbelievably angry as you possibly can and try to stay angry – you’ll find that 9 times out of 10 you won’t be able to sustain it. The idea is not to get all worked up and then go and spray your anger at your date. It’s about getting it all out and then dealing with whatever situation needs addressing. In order to do this you need to make sure that you don’t leave your private space until you feel like your anger has all gone. We hear so much about anger management when it’s not really about managing it, but rather letting it out. Just remember the golden rule: its OK to get angry but its not OK to take it out on someone or something else.

8. Read fiction – almost everyone agrees that fiction is a wonderful escape from the day to day. There’s nothing quite like stepping out of your own life and into the lives of the characters in a good story. And a good short story is just the thing for a 15 minute chillout session. Don’t know where to start? Check out www.espressofiction.com for some cool fiction that can be sent to you by email each week.

Hope these tips work for you on your next date. You might even find you enjoy it!

About the Author

Anna Dawson has tried a lot of different dating options and has learnt the hard way what works and what doesn’t. Now through her website she is finally sharing her secrets and helping to take the confusion out of dating. At http://www.datingloveadvice.com you’ll find great articles, practical tools, and up-to-date news affecting the dating world.

8 Quick Ways to Relax Before a Big Date by Anna Dawson

Dating first time with your date

Posted on February 10th, 2010 in General by hdn-dating-information-free-online-dating-guide

Dating first time with your date

Dating first time with your date – Some Dating tips about what you need to do

Meeting your date first time gives a range of emotional feeling in your mind which will be soo thrilling and also terrifying. Dating with a singles for the first time will make a lot of chemistry changes in our body. At Bepenfriends we give a dating articles in how to tips what will help your first meeting with your date go smoothly:

1) Be on time!

Timeliness is first tip in making your dating experience to go smoothly. Timeliness is expected by other singles with whom you date that day. Being late or too early will create a bad impression on you in their mind.  Not always we can be ontime but sometimes it goes out of our control. How to avoid such situation with your first date. Communicate them. In our friendship articles on “Making Friendships Last” we have said that communication is a key for sucessful friendship. That point applies to dating also. Call them before the expected arrival time and tell them about your delay in meeting them. this gives good impression on you that you are serious in the date.

2) Personal Checks!

This is a tip mainly for men who is going for the date. Before going to meet your date / friend check yourself first.  Below is the list that you need to check on you before meeting your date

Fingernails are clean or not
Hair style and neat
check your cloths are properly ironed
shoes polished
Any odors are under control.

Girls who are into dating withyou checks these things because this creates the first impression on you. Your physical impression is more essential than your mental impression in your first date.

3) Appearence

As said for men there is a tip for women too. That is appearence. Guys may not look at your hair style or clothing style but they will see your appearence. If your look is not pleasing your first may be your last date with him. So how to check your appearence. have a simple makeup which must not be done overly.Mild perfume will help you in attracting his attention on you. Be simple on your first date.

4) Don’t go to crowded places

Why are we going for date with another single. What if your date got attracted on other things than you. Dating is about to get to know each other better and to talk and understand about your date. First time dating is meant for knowing each others. When you go to movies or theatre s/he may got attracted on others than you which may spoil your dating experience. In a crowded place there is a chance that you can’t get to know each other well.

5) No over communication in first date

To know more about your date you need to ask some questions but be sure that you are asking the questions which you want to ask. Overly asked questions and answers will make other personal to loose interest in having further dates with you. So keep it simple and smooth. Moreover dating is more than  a interview. Don’t talk yourself always, Give a chance to your date also.

6) Keep surpraises about you

Want to talk more with other date. Give some surpraises. Don’t allow your date to get to know all about you in first time itself. This makes your date to loose interest. Keep secrets about you but give a hint about it. Create interest on you by secrets so that you get their attention not only in the first date but for further dates too. Guys tend to check more about girls life and girls love to know about secrets and try to ucover them.

7) Keep something common with your date.

Before going to first time dating, you be know eachother through online dating/ friendship sites. with the help of those you may know a little about your date. so have something in common which creates interest for talking. Best method to have interesting topics will be from magazines, newspapers. read them to get some common topics which creates way to know more about your date. Always try to find common things that both can share.

8) Never argue with your date

Always keep an open mind especially with your date. if you always argue with everything in first dating it creates bad impression and interest. Saying so is not saying yes to everything that your date says but give places where you differ, alternate ideas. if you don’t know something ask them.

9) Never get excited with first date.

One importent tip for the first time dateing friends. it is never get nervous/ excited. You may get excited but don’t show them to your date. Calm, confident looks is very appealing than a nervous, excited look

10) Have lot’s of fun with your date

Have fun with your date. For that only we are dating with others.

Above are some tips which are said, there is a lot of dating tips which helps you in your dating. Dating tips may help for some and not for some. Tips which are said are of general members in mind. sucessful dating experience depends on the situation not with any other things. So use these free dating tips with care

Read more articles on our dating articles,friendship articles sections.

About the Author

Writter is a article writter in http://www.bepenfriends.com/ an free online dating website for all dating singles.

Dating first time with your date by Albert Arul Prakash

Romantic Picnic Ideas For Your Next Date

Posted on February 10th, 2010 in General by hdn-dating-information-free-online-dating-guide

Romantic Picnic Ideas For Your Next Date

With the warmer weather approaching now is the perfect time to think about a romantic picnic with that special person in your life. Grab a picnic basket a blanket and head to a scenic spot to enjoy each others undivided company.

Picnics of the romantic variety work best in secluded or remote locations. However with that remoteness comes a certain level of pressure.

There is no room service or corner store to call on for the last minute forgotten items. With some planning and our helpful tips you can create a perfect picnic that will long be remembered.

The must take items are, blankets and cushions, Plates, glasses, napkins and at least 1 sharp knife food and drink, (don’t forget a bottle opener) sunscreen and insect repellent a first aid kit

and to really impress a CD player with mood music (make sure the batteries are charged) big stable candles, (don’t forget the matches) and flowers

A picnic menu is best if kept simple. Try cold chicken or meats, a selection of cheeses, fresh fruit like grapes and strawberries, dips and of course a fresh baked baguette. Foods you can share or even better feed to each other are winners.

Champagne or a crisp Chardonnay work well for most picnics, but don’t forget to take plenty of water it is easy to get dehydrated on a hot summers day. To keep ants away sprinkle talcum powder around your picnic site, ants can’t stand the smell or feel of it and won’t cross the barrier you have set up.

About the Author

You will find fantastic Romantic Getaways and Romantic Experiences at IntelligentRomance.com

Romantic Picnic Ideas For Your Next Date by Marc Lindsay

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